Ever feel that way?
Right now, I am trying to finalize my plans for a pilgrimage (which I have been hoping and praying for for over twenty years). I will leave on June 1st. In the midst of trying to pin down the unknowns of traveling to Europe alone –- I am also trying to complete some major tasks due by the end of July in order to finish a Master’s Degree program. A portion of this workload includes researching and writing seven different 10-12 page research papers (six of which are for my comprehensive exams), passing a language exam in Latin or Greek, finishing up a class, and beginning a thesis which is due in December –- oh, and starting a new job coordinating a school art program for about 600 kids …. At times, it can seem so overwhelming. I will be leaving in 24 days – be gone for 28 days – and although I have options, I can’t exactly pin down where I’ll be staying after the first 10 days of my pilgrimage or how I’m going to be getting around.
In the face of this turmoil, I know I must remember the overwhelming joy and excitement I felt when all of this came to be. How I was thrilled beyond measure that God was calling me to this incredible work! What amazing gifts! What incredible opportunities! Now, when my brain feels like its exploding from the pressure, it is easy to let fears run wild. I have been concerned about leaving my husband, my sons and my daughter (who is still at home) to the point that I decided to cancel the pilgrimage when I realized they couldn’t join me, but my husband encouraged me, saying: “I will take of everything at home. You have been planning and dreaming and saving for this for years. You’ll always regret it if you don’t do this.”
So, I did it. I made the plans. Bought the tickets, and now I’m wondering, what was I thinking????
Don’t get me wrong. I still believe this is an opportunity of a lifetime and an immeasurable gift from God and I truly am excited –- yet, at times, these beliefs seem to be buried underneath tremendous stress, fear and anxiety. When the fear and stress take over, sometimes it’s hard to remember why I am doing this. But, then the Word of God dispels these clamoring thoughts of the enemy, and remind me that God is trustworthy and He who began this good work in me will bring it to fruition (cf. Phil. 1:6). Also, I need not fear, for He will be with me always. Therefore, whether I feel it or not, or the circumstances bear witness to it, I know that His love enfolds me and that I can trust in God to write straight with my crooked lines and bring good out of all things. I also trust that I am being obedient to a call that He gave me, by remembering the many seemingly impossible obstacles that have already been overcome which enabled me to even purchase the tickets.
Therefore, ready or not, here I come. I soon will be on my way. Who knows, perhaps, I am being called to set out like Abraham with no safety net (a terribly hard thing to ask of a perfectionist and planner). But, regardless of whether or not the plans fall into place, I can trust in the plans God has for me.
I know this journey is not meant for me alone. I will carry each member of my family with me in my heart, thoughts and prayers. And because, in a mysterious, very real and mystical way, all believers are united in the One Body of Christ as children of the Father and as disciples of the Son, I feel certain that I am called to carry each one of you in my prayers on this journey to Rome, Italy, France and Medjugorje. This is the reason I began this blog – to share my journey with you.
But, now I realize more fully, that this blog epitomizes the true sharing and interconnectedness of us all. We can do nothing truly on our own. I need your prayers and your help to do this, and so I ask you to carry me in your hearts, thoughts and prayers just as much as I hope to carry you. Each one of us are pilgrims on a journey, and take part in a pilgrimage each day – whether it is in sickness, health, stress, suffering, work or joys that come with our daily duties – it is all meant to be accepted and offered in love of God and for one another.
This is my prayer and hope. I undertake this pilgrimage out of love for God and for each person who has taken time to read this and for those known to God alone. I trust and hope that I will be in your thoughts and prayers as well.